Life is a miracle. Some people live an extraordinary life, some people live an ordinary life and some just survive. I belong to the last class or so I believed...
But then humans are known for changing their minds based on the occurances in their lives. I was soon about to do so.
It was going to be just another lonely day. Notwithstanding the fact that it was going to be my birthday. The wife and daughter were not with me. My son was at a different place pursuing his studies and I was stuck in my place of posting completing my time before I was re united with my family. I think only criminals and army men do their time before they are liberated from the prison. Both of their own creation My prison was my job. The diktats of the army had to be followed – for serving the country and earning a living in the process. The previous evening I had kept awake till 1200h knowing that someone would call to wish me a happy birthday. That was not to be. Finally at 1230h after nodding off several times in anticipation of congratulatory messages on my having inhabited this earth, I went to sleep. No one called. Not that I was a celebrity that people would work themselves into a frenzy on my birth and kill each other on trying to outdo each other in the process of celebration....
I was rudely jolted out of my sleep when my phone’s shrill ring tone woke me up.( My family finally woke up to the fact that I was celebrating one more year of existence on this earth). “Happy Birthday” said my wife and daughter on the speaker phone. What is so happy about a birthday? I wanted to ask them. But stifled my inner thoughts and civilly thanked them for their wishes. Then it was my son,” Happy birthday” he said. And followed it by inquiring as to what I was doing. What would one do early in the morning after waking up? Anyhow the appropriate response was – “Nothing” and I so responded. ‘Nothing’ is a conversation stopper. We both did not know as to how to proceed from there. He again wished me a happy birthday and I again saidThank You. And that was that. As I came out of the bathroom, there were about fifteen missed calls on my mobile. I had to respond to each of them by calling back. In effect I had to pay for people wishing me a Happy Birthday. By the time I had got ready, the frequency of the calls abated. There was nothing else to look forward to the day was as good as over. In my own turn I wished all those people who shared a Birthday with me .... I confess I liked being wished a Happy Birthday even if the wishes were just a part of our civilised existence. ...
My mind went back to the beginning of the day
when I was cynical and scornful about
people celebrating their birthdays with huge parties. While I was still against
the parties , my birthday could not have been celebrated better than spending time with these thoughtful youngsters. It was the best present I
could have gotten for my for my birthday.....
It was going to be just another lonely day. Notwithstanding the fact that it was going to be my birthday. The wife and daughter were not with me. My son was at a different place pursuing his studies and I was stuck in my place of posting completing my time before I was re united with my family. I think only criminals and army men do their time before they are liberated from the prison. Both of their own creation My prison was my job. The diktats of the army had to be followed – for serving the country and earning a living in the process. The previous evening I had kept awake till 1200h knowing that someone would call to wish me a happy birthday. That was not to be. Finally at 1230h after nodding off several times in anticipation of congratulatory messages on my having inhabited this earth, I went to sleep. No one called. Not that I was a celebrity that people would work themselves into a frenzy on my birth and kill each other on trying to outdo each other in the process of celebration....
The next day dawned bright and
cheerful. At least God was with me on my Birthday.
I was rudely jolted out of my sleep when my phone’s shrill ring tone woke me up.( My family finally woke up to the fact that I was celebrating one more year of existence on this earth). “Happy Birthday” said my wife and daughter on the speaker phone. What is so happy about a birthday? I wanted to ask them. But stifled my inner thoughts and civilly thanked them for their wishes. Then it was my son,” Happy birthday” he said. And followed it by inquiring as to what I was doing. What would one do early in the morning after waking up? Anyhow the appropriate response was – “Nothing” and I so responded. ‘Nothing’ is a conversation stopper. We both did not know as to how to proceed from there. He again wished me a happy birthday and I again saidThank You. And that was that. As I came out of the bathroom, there were about fifteen missed calls on my mobile. I had to respond to each of them by calling back. In effect I had to pay for people wishing me a Happy Birthday. By the time I had got ready, the frequency of the calls abated. There was nothing else to look forward to the day was as good as over. In my own turn I wished all those people who shared a Birthday with me .... I confess I liked being wished a Happy Birthday even if the wishes were just a part of our civilised existence. ...
Elsewhere(Unknown to me)
“It is uncle’s Birthday” announced
Anuj. His dad looked cornered.While the monetary aspect of a Birthday was not a
problem, dad also knew that he would have to strain his gray cells for finding
an appropriate present. He knew that something was coming up. He did not know
what – but something was on.And what Anuj wanted Anuj got it done even if it meant that his father had to move Heaven and Earth. He did not have to wait long. Young Anuj did not
need encouragement to continue. “And we would like to celebrate it with him”
Anuj and his friend Bunny had been planning for days for this event. It was
only on the penultimate day that they planned to involve their parents. They
had it all chalked out. A present was to be given. A cake had to be cut and it
was to be a surprise. The problem was the present and the children did not know
what to present . Bunny suggested a Hulk Toy. Anuj thought of presenting an
umbrella. It was then that they thought about bringing the elders in to the
picture. Wiser counsels prevailed over the unbridled enthusiasm of the
youngsters. The cake was ordered. Naturally the flavour had to be to the liking
of the children. There was to be no compromise on this issue. Though they did
not agree with the present selection , sometimes it was wise to listen to the
elders. The presents bought. And the children were ready
to bring joy into my life on a day which mattered to me most.
The Evening of My Birthday
“Uncle come out” (From my room)said
the children as they barged into my room in the evening, when I took some time, to open the door to some rather noisy
and persistent ringing of my doorbell. Thank God I was suitably attired!
Anuj and Bunny adopted me for
practicing their violin before each class. Every evening we spent some time
over their violin classes and I helped them learn the nuances of improving
their violin skills.And once I was satisfied with the practice we would then watch a movie
together .
It was dark outside when I stepped
out as per their request. There was chill in the air. Suddenly there was a
sharp pop like that of the champagne bottle being opened. I was showered with sparkling confetti and the children sang
the most popular song in the world. I was overcome with emotion. The party
moved indoors. Anuj opened the cake box
and bunny set up the cake and the candle. Soon it was cake cutting time and we
fed each other a piece of cake. Though the children liked chicken, they brought
a vegetarian Pizza, keeping in view my food preferences. Presents were handed
over. A pen from Bunny and a photo from Anuj. The ev ening slowly drew to a close....
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ReplyDeleteFor most of us our life is our immediate circle of people. And it is important to keep it safe, civil and joyous. Great to see that you have a bright one. You are lucky, indeed, than many.
ReplyDeleteBelated happy birthday sir!!
Beautiful narrative. A day well spent, but why confine it to a particular day, I wonder
ReplyDeleteBeautifully composed
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